You are:
A conscious leader, change maker, creative, facilitator, healer, therapist.
You have love and vision.
You are here to make impact and change the ways for future generations.
You do your work, show up for your healing.
You can connect with the big love in your practices, and yet,
there are these core patterns that continue to cycle in your relationships and/ or parenting.
Maybe you are longing to call in a more conscious partnership.
Healing from heartbreak, confused why your relationships keep ending,
you’re looking to feel more connected and ‘together’ in your current relationships and parenting.
Maybe you are wanting to become the more whole version of yourself
in your family, creativity and leadership.
Maybe, with the best intentions, you are still playing out your trauma with your children, or noticing your wounds showing up in them.
Perhaps you can feel the parent you know you can be,
but you are just not able to embody it (yet).
Relationships trigger the deepest core wounds in all of us.
That’s why they can be the most powerful place of transformation.
Loving relational connection heals us through
attunement, coregulation, and resonance.
There is a blind spot in the trauma healing movement,
a blind spot in our collective.
No amount of practice or healing will deeply repattern us if we aren’t able to feel deeply connected with another/ other human beings.
The felt sense of connectedness in safety
is truly at the root of foundational trauma healing and integration.
Imagine:
You feel deeply connected to self and your relationships. You feel a deep togetherness with your partner (and/ or in relationships). Your relationships become a place of co creation, celebration and growth.
In relationship you are able to dance through the waves of healing and love as allies. Conflict and ruptures bring you deeper into intimacy, instead of further apart. Your differences in relationship are a place of celebration and inspiration.
Your partner is who you turn to for support, co creativity, your most vulnerable shares and fulfilling soul nourishing sex.
You are able to show up as a parent with a new level of presence and capacity to connect. You have a ground of love and stability to hold your children on their journey. You conceive and birth in ways you longed for.
You know how to work with the ancestral and childhood patterns/ triggers that arise. In your offerings and service in the world you bring a deep sense of connection and love. You know how to work with trauma in others and how to create relational transformation.
I’m here for the vision of interconnected love in our relationships and families. Both for individuals and for the healing of the collective.
When we can deeply commune in our bodies with each other, with nature, with ourselves, we come deeper into intimacy with the moment of life, with what we are here to weave and what is meant to be woven through us. This is what is needed on earth right now.
I am here to reconnect you to the sacred awakening that IS relationship,
through sacred partnership, sacred parenting and community.
Relationship is your Guru. It is your great initiator and awakener.
And we are meant to be deeply interwoven in interdependence.
Part of the edge of evolutionary awakening right now is coming back to one another. Coming off the mountains and out of the caves to practice together the art of love.
It is in relationship that we face our deepest patterns and it is through relationship that we can fully heal our trauma.
Trauma is relational and so It’s in the relational that we we are freed and welcomed back into love.
What I bring to my offerings:
- Somatic Experiencing Practitioner
- Systemic Relations/ Family Constellations Facilitator
- Crystalline Consciousness Practitioner
- Shamanism Arts Practitioner
- Pre & Peri Natal Somatics
- Holistic Birth Keeper/ Doula
- Gene Keys
- Tantric Arts
- Somatic Touch
- Developmental Relational Trauma Specialty
I looooove embodied experiential learning, so I received my Masters in Social Work then dove in deep to neuroscience and somatics, as well as the shamanic arts. Through this path I have come deeply into self regulation, presence and vitality as an ongoing journey to step into more and more capacity. I have been in service to healing for over 17 years; including teaching, supervising and mentoring students and therapists, offering courses and leading retreats.
Authentic, earthy, grounded, interconnected, intentional and mystical living is what I value.
How We Can Work Together
Together Community
Master the art of sacred relating.
Join an apprenticeship for leaders and changemakers to awaken, heal and embody through relationship with Courtney Wren + Mike Elliott.
Work 1:1 with Me
Explore my body of work in the Rebirth 1 Year Container.
You'll receive the unique and customized guidance you need for your healing and embodiment.
Couples Sacred Relating
This is a sacred container for couples to work closely with Mike Elliott + Courtney Wren and each other 2:2.
Learn if Couples Sacred Relating sessions are a fit for you and your partner.
My Story
The reality of what helped me heal was relationship. It was through relationship that I found myself deepening into life.
Relationship is the place that wakes us up to our humanness, and also helps us deeply feel ourselves. I needed so much relation in my healing journey, and marveled at how when I brought myself into connection, healing would happen in a way that could not when meditating alone.
I was always deeply relational and connective. I was also creative, spunky, alive. I knew I was here to create change on this planet, to be part of a bigger movement of love, I could feel it in my bones.
I have deeply journeyed my own healing path unwinding from generational/ ancestral trauma, attachment trauma, birth trauma, and complex childhood trauma which manifested as severe anxiety, panic attacks, sleep walking, ADHD diagnoses.
I live an earth based life in the Slocan Valley, BC where I am a medicine Mama to my 2 year old son and am in consciously loving partnership and community.
I am part of a new moon women's group and started a sisterhood temple with the most beautiful priestesses. Our family celebrates the turning of the wheel of the year with 5 other families.
Our son spends his days playing in the forest, climbing rocks, swimming in pristine water lakes as rivers, he eats organic whole foods, our water comes from our river, he loves to hike and be in nature.
I live my life with an intention to be and walk as medicine, and living as a prayer. I deeply continue to do my own somatic nervous system work to deepen into my body and felt sense of life.
The blessing I have had as a partner and a mother is to have entered into both intentionally, consciously and having done enough inner work (nervous system healing, reparenting myself, deeply practicing self love, mapping my generational patterns, and imprints from my own conception, time in the womb and birth) to be able to be IN MY SEAT, meaning consciously being with the moments as they arise. Messy and beautiful. The old arising with capacity to be transformed into something new. This has been suuuuuch a gift. As I am, in real time, rewiring and reweaving new ways in my generational line and in the collective of what conscious partnership can be and what motherhood can be.
I also have had soooo much relational and community support in becoming a mama and entering into this sacred partnership.
I have always been a weaver of new ways. And I have a gift for helping others unwind and digest all the layers that have come before (soul, ancestral, womb time and birth imprints) and to embody and become the new way that is in alignment with earth and the soul path.
I also have a gift for creating safe space, opening people’s hearts, going to the deepest depths with lightness,
and bringing people together, to feel and see one another.
I am the guide/ therapist who can help you do the deepest embodied repatterning yet.
What My Clients Are Saying
“Courtney's 3-month container is an essential tool for anyone processing early parental attachment wounding.
There is no substitute for being held in an unconditionally loving space, with another deeply attuned to and interested in your wellbeing and authentic expression.
I did not even know what I was missing until my being felt safe enough in the container to express feelings of abandonment at this depth.
The result: walking the daily walk with the clarity and coherency of self-reliance and self-love. There is no greater gift you could give yourself on your healing journey. Infinitely grateful! ‘
Sandy S.
Intuitive Writer
“I had the honour of participating in Courtney’s womb constellation this spring and to say that it was life changing is an understatement.
We processed my birth constellation on the last day where I was able to physically see and innerstand how the patterns and imprints from my birth were playing out in my life and relationships, and most significantly in the birth of my daughter.
It has shifted my entire paradigm around my healing process and brought me to a depth of understanding and self responsibility that I didn’t know was possible. How we birth IS how we live. Wow. I am still integrating the shifts 6 months later.
Thank you Courtney for your gifts and holding such impeccable space for us to heal individually and collectively.”
Skaiya Koyich
Soul Strategist & Co Founder of Eldorado Conscious Space
“Doing an online circle over 6 weeks with Courtney taught me that I can heal and transform much more efficiently and safely with the support of others.
I didn’t know it until I experienced it!
I am now VERY excited to do more group work, to come together with beautiful souls to grow in love and awareness.
Thank you so much for holding a tender, powerful, aligned container Courtney”.
Rachelle Marsden
Unschooling Teacher with Self Design & Authentic Relating Leader
“If you are reading this testimonial, then you likely know that it is one of many testimonials written in declaration of Courtney’s competency as a facilitator of health and awakening.
Are you ready to cut bonds with your denial? The denial of your full worthiness? Are you ready to see clearly the relationships to "self" and "other", as well as the connections that are anchoring you from raising into your full radiance?
A container of healing with Courtney is for coming into right-relationship with your body, your essence and your greater social ecology.
Yes, this requires shifting trauma, let's face it - that can be intimidating.
I would argue you have no idea how much you are giving up by not getting assistance.
We are meant to heal one another, we are meant to be deliberate in our self advocacy.
Working with Courtney will support you to rebirth a refined and aligned new iteration of your being. As a recent new born of this work - I would attest that humanity cannot afford to postpone this work any longer.
It is time for you to step into your wholeness and show the world it’s possible.
Sara Shepherd
Medicine Woman | Gene Keys Guide | Founder of Karma Well Health
“The power I see in you Courtney is the representation of the divine feminine.
It is truly the power that can stop war and bring about peace.
I am incredible thankful and honoured to experience you in your offerings. Simply watching you and being around you changes me.
Your presentation is very much needed in my life for what I’m calling in."
Lori Rockl
“When I first met Courtney when attending a grief retreat in the Kootenays.. My partner and I lost our son and had been navigating our way through our grief.
The retreat was nurturing beyond words and gave us a space to grieve communally and support our process through ceremony and ritual.
I felt seen, heard, and was gifted a new lens on grief.
Since then we have been seeing Courtney and Mike as a couple. The experience has been refreshing, unclinical, powerful, and grounding.
They both have so much to offer and work in a way I’ve never encountered before, it was the first couples therapy I truly felt growth. They evoke new energy and patterns that stimulate our connection.
It’s truly been profound and both my partner and I are extremely grateful”.
